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It can be particularly hard to hear that your loved one has been sexually assaulted. Be prepared to be more closely involved with your family member’s recovery than others, as the survivor may need help financially for therapy, transportation, or someone to talk to regularly. However, also remember that for some survivors, it’s easier to talk to friends than family about sexual violence. Don’t take this as a judgment on your relationship. Respond to the survivor’s needs, but don’t impose your assistance.
 
It’s often especially hard for survivors to tell parents about violence because it often involves an acknowledgement of sexual relationships with others (since much violence happens between people in an existing sexual relationship). Do not victim-blame or tie the violence to other sexual choices.
 
For some families, discussing sex and sexuality at all is extremely difficult. Some families may have never discussed sex before. Be supportive and treat your loved one with respect and maturity.
 
If your child tells you about being sexually assaulted and asks for therapy, help them research therapists in your area. If you are concerned about money, many rape crisis centers offer free counseling.
 
If you find out from someone else that your child has been sexually assaulted, tread carefully. If you broach the subject, make sure you allow your child to define the experience in their own terms. Be careful about using words like “rape” or “sexual assault” in the conversation; try to use the same words they apply to their experience.
 
Remember that some survivors don’t choose to confide in their families — and for a variety of reasons.
 
Anonymous Resources
Family members who have general questions about Title IX-related resources available at WVSU, please call the Title IX On-Call Line at (304) 533-5392.
 
While the staff who answer the Title IX On-Call line serve as anonymous resources for all students, faculty and staff, please note that under most circumstances they cannot discuss specific cases with third parties – such as friends and family – due to the students’ rights under FERPA.
 
FERPA
Students at West Virginia State University benefit from the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act of 1974. This Act, with which West Virginia State University intends to comply fully, was designed to protect the privacy of education records, to establish the right of students to inspect and review their education records, and to provide guidelines for the correction of inaccurate or misleading data through informal and formal hearings.
 
 







   
Sexual Assault and Response Team (SART)
(Confidential)

(304) 340-3676

 
WVSU Public Safety
(304) 766-3181 (24-hour number)
http://wvstateu.edu/About/Administration/Public-Safety.aspx

 
Counseling and Accessibility Services
(Confidential)

(304) 766-3168
http://wvstateu.edu/Current-Students/Counseling-and-Accessibility-Services.aspx
 
Title IX Office
(304) 533-5392
(24-hour number)


 
Employee Assistance Program (EAP) (Confidential)
(304) 722-9119
http://www.peopleworkwv.com/


 
Rape Education, Advocacy, Counseling and Healing (REACH)
(Confidential)

1-800-656-HOPE (4673) (24-hour number)
http://www.fris.org/CrisisCenters/Pages-CrisisCenters/Center-REACH.html
 
YWCA Resolve Family Abuse Program
(Confidential)

24-hour Domestic Violence Crisis Lines:
Charleston calling area: (304) 340-3549
Toll-free: 1-800-681-8663
https://www.ywcacharleston.org/domestic-violence-services
CAMC Women’s and Children’s Hospital
(Confidential)

(304) 388-2550
http://www.camc.org/wc

 




 
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